What goes where on the table
and which glasses go with what drinks
Real easy, the etiquette experts tell us. The general rule with utensils is to start from the outside of your place setting, and work your way toward the service plate (the main meal plate): soup spoon first, then fish knife and fork, then service knife and fork.
| A | B | C | D | E |
|---|---|---|---|---|
Serviette (napkin) | Service plate | Soup bowl on plate | Bread & butter plate | Water glass |
| F | G | H | I | J |
White wine | Red wine | Fish fork | Dinner Fork | Salad fork |
| K | L | M | N | |
Service knife | Fish knife | Soup spoon | Dessert spoon and cake fork | |
Note that it often is recommended that the salad fork (J) is placed to the left of the dinner fork (I). However, in this formal setting the dinner fork is placed to be used before the salad fork because it is suggested that the guest awaits the main meal before helping him/herself to the salad. | ||||
My sister made placemats with outlines of where each thing went to teach her kids how to set the table correctly. I keep thinking I need to do that too. Maybe not with the wine glasses though :)
ReplyDeleteThat is a good idea! Lincoln is our newly appointed table setter and his first time he just threw everything haphazardly at everyone's places. I should show him this :)
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